Invest in your Marriage – It’s worth it

Invest in your Marriage – It’s worth it

Invest in your Marriage

Following on from the Happily Ever After Event, Ayesha Asalm will go through the most important things to do for a better marriage. You will find this one day event a valuable resource covering;

  • Communication
  • Common Pitfuls to avoid
  • Love language
  • Goal to build a strong marriage
  • much more

Did you know that even when your marriage has reached breaking point by going to counselling and having the right therpaist you will get your marriage back on track.

Proior to the event:

Once registered you will be given a questionnare to complete, this will be analysed and your feedback will be disccussed on the day.

Please note places are limited and you will need  to purchase your ticket in advance. You will be refused entry if you do not have a valid ticket. For further details Contact Us

About Ayesha Aslam:

She is a qualified and highly experienced Couple and Systemic therapist with over 8 years working with couples, providing educational talks to the community and has received praise for her work in Islamic counselling. You can read all about her by Googling Ayesha Aslam Sakoon.




11 Secrets to a Happy Marriage

11 Secrets to a Happy Marriage

11 Secrets to a Happy Marriage

We currently have more Muslim couples coming to our counselling services and have put together the secrets to a happy marriage.

Marriage for Muslims goes beyond the union of two people who share the same interest and passion. It is a sign of Allah’s greatness and that nothing can destroy a strong marriage if the foundation is built with love, sincerity, and faith.

“And one of His signs is that He created for you, spouses from amongst yourselves so that you might take comfort in them, and He has placed between you, love and mercy.”

(Surah 30, Verse 21)

If you aim to live a happy married life, here are some tips that you can follow:

  1. Be Grateful to Each Other

Marriage life is a blessing. One of the most important tips for happy married life is to recognize that your spouse is God’s gift. When you love someone, you should be thankful for being with them even beyond this lifetime.


2. Be Each Other’s Best Friend

Effective communication between married couples is one of the most important tips for a happy marriage life. As lifetime partners, spouses should be attuned to their partner’s feelings without the need for one person to keep asking what he or she wants.

3. Motivate and Help Your Spouse

Knowing your spouse’s needs can help you encourage your partner to achieve his or personal desires. Does she want to improve her cooking? Help her with her daily taste tests. Does he want to start a business? Be partners in growth and productivity, and bring out each other’s potentials.

4. Have Time For Each Other

Many marriages suffer because of the spouses’ lack of time for each other and their family. If you are a working, married couple, allot few hours of your time to bond with your spouse. This fosters open communication to achieve marital happiness and trust.

5. Maintain Intimacy and Passion

Men and women need physical and emotional satisfaction, especially during the marriage. It is important to know your spouses’ wants and needs so that you can fulfill them. This is crucial for the health of your marriage life. Make an effort to fulfill your spouse’s’ primary needs.

6. Overall Self-Improvement

Married couples often forget to take care of themselves once they start to build a family. One of the most important tips for a happy marriage is the constant self-improvement. This is not limited only to looking good for your spouse but also includes cultivating God-given potentials

7. Give and Take

Arguments are inevitable in marital relationships, but as lifetime partners, spouses should be able to discern each other’s weaknesses. Listen carefully to each other’s woes and stop the urge to constantly defend and argue. Be sensitive to each other’s feelings to be able to resolve disagreements.

8. Be Honest

Whether it is about money problems or worries about infidelity, the communication lines between married couples should be open and transparent. Distrust is a common pitfall of relationships that often stems from the lack of trust of confidence with one’s spouse. Be truthful to minimize marital conflict.

9. “ME” Time

It is important to give married couples opportunities to enjoy their alone time. Let your spouse catch up with his old buddies or visit the salon during the weekend. This way, both can grow as individuals without the stress of constantly fulfilling each other’s needs.

10. Put Allah in the Center of Relationship

An important tip for happy marriage life is managing marital problems by being conscious of Allah. Recognize that relationships have ups and down, and know that Allah placed love and mercy in relationships so that married couples can live life harmoniously together.

11. Win Allah’s Pleasure Together

Marriage is an institution created in order for couples to stay on Allah’s path. This is the foundation where Muslim men and women can build their life together. Help each other to get closer to Allah. Be partners in achieving Allah’s pleasure.

Islam believes that marriage allows people become more physically and mentally sound. Muslim marriages are also seen as a way to acquire spiritual perfection. The above tips for happy marriage life can help married couples achieve eternal happiness having earned Allah’s pleasure together. Marriage is made up of two different people with different interest, so working hard to achieve a harmonious partnership is also a lifetime commitment.

Ladies evening of the year

Ladies evening of the year

Get ready for an evening full of Entertainment, Glitz & Glamour!!! Exclusive to Ladies only (Girls 10 yrs+)!

Our guest Speaker includes Ayesha Aslam From Sakoon Islamic counselling 

She will be discussing Muslim Mental Health, addressing the Stigma associated with it and how you can support the community by sitting their Accredited Counselling Courses


About this Event

Ruislip Muslim Mums & Friends‘ in collaboration with ‘Lahore Fashions UK‘ are excited to invite you to a ‘ Fashion & Entertainment Extravaganza’!

It truly is an evening of empowering women!

In their own way each woman is battling through something or another in their life& we all need opportunities where we can just leave our troubles at the door, let our hair down (literally), glam up and dance the night away.

Sounds like your type of evening? Then just let us entertain You!

Hosted by the very talented Ruby Raza & Kajal from LycaRadio.

Featuring Fashion Statement by ‘Lahore Fashions UK’

Performances by DJ HENNA & MISS MOD (Ministry of Dhol)

Including a three course sit-down dinner.

Premarital counselling

Premarital counselling

Pre-Marital counselling

Ayesha Aslam discusses the importance of pre-marital counselling.

Live on Islam Channel

Show: Womens AM

Date and time : 21st October at 11am

Pre-marital counselling is a type of Therapy that help couples to prepare for marriage, it can prove challenging as you discuss topics but it is for the best as the effort you put in is an investment to make your marriage work

Islamic Counselling courses

Islamic Counselling courses

Islamic Counselling Courses.

Our academic year is starting soon. Kick start your career in becoming a fully qualified professional counsellor.

We currently have a limited spaces available and spaces so don’t forget to apply soon.

Our courses are accredited by CPCAB and upon completion or Level 4 you can go onto register with BACP(British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy).

More information can be found on our Counselling courses 

Muslim Mental Health Awareness

Muslim Mental Health Awareness

Muslim Mental Health Awareness



Location: Dallow Centre, 234 Dallow Road, Luton, LU1 1TB

Date: Sunday July 7th 2019

Time: 3.00 pm – 6.00 pm  

Free event and you must reserve a space on Eventbrite